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21 Fun Questions To Rescue You On A Date

Posted by David Web

Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazing things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his mega-best-selling book \”How to win friends and influence people\” talks about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you\’re a woman and want to stroke a guy\’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!

Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you\’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What is you all time favourite film and why?

3. If you had the chance to choose 5 people to invite to dinner – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone made a funny comedy movie about your life, which part of the story would be the funniest and why?

6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?

7. If there was something that you missed doing in this lifetime what was it?

8. What\’s the most way-out experience you\’ve had in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What\’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?

And now let\’s get a little risqu! You may have to have a few drinks before asking some of these questions!

15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What\’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What\’s your biggest sexual \’turn-ons\’ and \’turn-offs\’?

19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do and who was it?

21. Have you ever had sex with more than one woman at a time?

If you would like to read more fun questions that you can ask different guys then visit 21 questions to ask a guy today.

Tags: Dating, marriage, Men, Online Dating, Relationships